Ex In-laws Follow-Up
As all my friends and all of you who read and commented on my post Ex In-laws said, contact your ex mother-in-law. So I did. I invited her to stay with me and my parents so that she could see her grand daughters. Her daughter then contacted me and asked if she, her new husband (she cheated on her ex-husband too), and their blended family of 3 kids could come stay too. To that I said no, my parents are moving, they can’t house me, my 2 girls, your mother and you and your family, that is too much. She could have then said, we’ll stay at a hotel and visit if that is OK, which would have been fine, but she didn’t. It was decided that only my ex mother-in-law would come.
Then drama struck and 2 days after I got his initial e-mail I get an e-mail from my ex mother-in-law that says that unfortunately she will not be able to come visit with us like planned. I didn’t even respond to it, because it was in the middle of everything and my ex apparently absolutely does not want me to have any contact with his mother.
I can’t help but wonder what he told her to get her to cancel her trip. One day I will talk to her and ask her what did he say about me and the breakup and the divorce. But, the time for that is not now. Now I am going to let it all go and have a wonderful vacation with my daughters and my parents.