Life doesn’t always turn out the way you plan. No matter how good your intentions are, sometimes things happen that you could never have imagined. That’s what happened to me. I had my life all planned out, the man, the house, the children, even where to retire in 20 years. Then divorce happened and now it’s all wide open again. But, I still have my children and right now that is all that matters. I’m still trying to figure out what to do with the rest of my life. Figure out who I am now and who I want to be, what I want to do.